• Blog Posts,  My Adventures

    No Coachella For Me

    No Coachella For Me Around this time every year you can expect your instagram, facebook, snapchat, twitter, etc…to be annoyingly flooded with those who are headed to the desert in California to attend the annual Coachella.  You can also expect Los Angeles, San Diego, Orange County, and even Las Vegas to be a little less crowded at the bars, pool parties, and nightclubs with hipsters, celebrities, and social media influencers out of town for the next two weeks.  What began in 1999 was a music festival that brought very different acts together in one location outside of Palm Springs over ONE weekend.  In the last two decades, especially in recent…

  • Blog Posts,  Maximus

    Why You SHOULD Get A Dog

    My dog… Life with Maximus I always tell my little guy to “never leave me,” knowing that one day he will and I will have to tell him it is ok to do that. When they say dogs come into your life sometimes when you need them the most, they are not kidding. The hardest few years of my life were my first few years I had Max. I felt the most lonely, the most scared, the most unsure about my life path and I probably cried the most in those few years than I have my whole life… times 10. This dog was meant to join me as my…

  • Blog Posts,  My Adventures

    Are Psychics For Real?

    I would say more often than not the answer is “No,” to believing that psychics are real.  I think some people do believe, because they like the whole idea of the mystical possibility of psychics and seeing their future.  The people that don’t, I understand why they don’t and they have every right to their own opinion.  As for me, I am a believer!  I have experienced first hand something that cannot be rationalized or chalked up to a coincidence, as far as I’m concerned. The Backstory      Almost two years ago, on Sunday May 15, 2016, I took a plane from LAX to New York to visit one…

  • Blog Posts

    The List

    The List   A lot of us have that fictional list of people we would sleep with if your partner allowed you to step out of your relationship for a night.  It can be sometimes eye opening to see if someone has a type and you fit into that.  I find it comical, because it is pretend.  Luckily I am with someone who feels the same way about it, because I am sure in some relationships one would never dare to tell their partner who they find attractive.  Whether they feel it takes something away from their relationship or may even spark some jealousy.  Get over it people, it’s not…

  • Bar Etiquete,  Bar Star

    The Ugly Truth…Bar and Nightclub Etiquette

    The Ugly Truth  Bar and Nightclub Etiquette  What Not to Do: If you go into a busy bar…BEFORE you order, know what you are ordering. I have never understood how people wait for a drink (say they have been waiting forever, maybe 90 seconds) and when the bartender finally asks what they want they either don’t know or they proceed to “string order” (order another and then another after the 1st verbal order, order all at once people). What were you doing for the eternity you had to wait for a drink? Pondering the weather? Also have your form of payment READY…and don’t split the payment 5 ways (cheap ass)…